My post was definitely not a shade to the grad rec team at all. I just felt it not necessary to add the line “you were not a top candidate”. It feels demoralising when it comes from grad rec who have read your app and makes me think if I have what it takes.Thank you for your kind words appreciate it and I know how you and others feel as I had been rejected from them before even after strong application. But I guess some firms have to be ruthless in their application process.
Also I will say that I have met Skadden grad rec in person and he seems like a nice person and he does try to help people when he can.
They could have just said “we received stronger candidates”. I’m sure they are all great