Future trainee here. There was a networking event at my firm and I met some applicants. I asked one applicant what stage he was at and he told me he 'graduated a long time ago'. I asked him when he graduated and he told me 2021 (not a long-time ago at all). I told him I graduate in 2017, and I'm starting my training contract in March 2025. He was concerned that he was behind and old. I want to give advice to mature applicants that would have saved me so much time and effort. This mentality (thinking you're behind and old etc) may make you lose out on a training contract at your dream firm. I had this mentality on my first vacation scheme at my 'dream' firm and I am 90% sure it was the reason I did not receive the TC. Your mentality/mindset is the most important thing to acheiving your goals. Your subconscious mind determines what you genuinely believe you can do and achieve. If you feel like you are behind and old, no matter how outwardly confident you are, that energy will be sensed by recruiters and could affect how you are preceived no matter how well you do in assessments. No one will tell you this, but recruiters and hiring partners are human (suprise) and there is still a sense of hiring someone based on 'vibes'/'energy'. At the end of the day, you can be 'perfect on paper' but if your 'energy','attitude','confidence','vibes' are 'off' you may lose out on a TC offer. It could be being insecure, being overconfident, being unkind, jugdemental etc. Whatever it is - peoples 'energy' is sensed by recruiters especially on a vacation scheme and you might not get hired because you may not be the sort of person that people will want to work will late nights or in a team. Your grades and assessments on the VS or AC only partly influence your decision to be hired. In my opinion, recruiters are more likely to pick someone who has a great mentality and exudes positive energy, is confident and kind etc, but didn't necessarily score the highest in the VS assessments. There is a huge likeability aspect in the hiring process that you might not be told about and it's something to think about(obviously you have to still perform WELL). Therefore, your insecurity about being behind or too old might manifest in how you present yourself in an interview or VS. Watch out for it.
I got a second chance and received another vacation scheme offer which translated into a TC at another brilliant firm with objectively better training - everything happens for a reason! BUT, I could have saved myself so much time and energy if I was genuinely confident and not insecure about my experience and age the first time around. I learnt my lesson from the first time. Don't let the rejections and disappointments or the amount of time it's taking, make you feel like you're behind on life and that you're not smart or capable. Try to reject internalising this because it will affect your chances of success. A bad mentality will slow you down, make you give up, or if you get the offer - make you blow the interview or VS. The quicker you fail, the quicker you succeed. SO with each rejection, just know you are closer to success. A year ago I was on a winter VS and got rejected, now I'm working at another firm and about to start my TC in a few months. It does not have to take you years to get a TC, but if you internalise the rejections it will slow you down.
Stay focused, don't give up and watch your thoughts and mindset! 2025 can be your year!