Hi
@lawstress,
I thought that I would say a few things in response to your post:
1. Welcome to the forum. It is always lovely to see new members at TCLA. 🤸♂️ We are excited to have you join us!
That being said, I know that this is a difficult time for you. The community is built for moments like this, so please do (as you are here) draw on it 🚀.
2. I am sorry to hear that you are feeling dejected. I remember feeling like that too. After a being rejected from my first TC interview ever in October 2020, with no other invitations on the horizon,
I felt hopeless and demotivated.
I felt like my interview had gone well, I had just attended a talk given by this firm's GR Partner (who happened to interview me) about how to succeed in their interview and I had been doing interview preparation (for this interview) for months. I felt like I had actioned their advice from the talk effectively and that all the right questions had come up. This meant that when the rejection email came through it was really tough. I felt like the interview was mine to mess up and that I had done precisely that. I hate that you might be feeling something similar now.
I wish that I could have known that within 12 months that I would be offered a number of vacation scheme places (and I was not one of those people always destined to get a vacation scheme place!). Rejections are awful, but they really can kickstart a new chapter. After my disappointment, I doubled my application efforts, turned my frustration into motivation to prove to myself that I was a strong, capable candidate. This attitude ultimately brought me success.
3. Related to the above, this rejection is
not a ringing indictment of you as a candidate, nor of your suitability for a career in law. As
@TCdreamer97 pointed out, even getting to that stage is a huge achievement and should give you confidence that you are good enough to train at one of these firms.
4. A few
positive steps that you can make straight away which will (I promise) enhance your development are:
a. Writing down the questions that you were asked (and that you remember). Include a note about what you can remember about your answers, even if this is just a rating out of 10. This will give you some points to focus on for next time (as there
will be one).
b. Asking for feedback.
5. Finally, take things one step at a time, but please do not think that this is the end of the road.
As I said in
this post, my applications progress came in fits and bursts. You are capable and I truly believe that this is a (difficult, but developmental) blip in your journey.
Take care of yourself
@lawstress.
We are here to support you if and when you are ready.